{"id":814,"date":"2020-03-01T11:52:36","date_gmt":"2020-03-01T11:52:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/radamichal.cz\/?p=814"},"modified":"2020-03-01T12:36:27","modified_gmt":"2020-03-01T12:36:27","slug":"proc-vlastne-nekourim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/radamichal.cz\/?p=814","title":{"rendered":"Pro\u010d vlastn\u011b nekou\u0159\u00edm?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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To je zaj\u00edmav\u00e1 ot\u00e1zka k hlub\u0161\u00edmu zamy\u0161len\u00ed. Napadla mne, kdy\u017e te\u010f \u010dasto chod\u00edm na d\u011btsk\u00e9 h\u0159i\u0161t\u011b a ob\u010das \u017eel mus\u00edm necht\u011bn\u011b \u201e\u010dmuchat\u201c cigaretov\u00fd kou\u0159, kter\u00fd se line od n\u011bkter\u00fdch rodi\u010d\u016f (a bohu\u017eel nejen j\u00e1, ale i m\u00e9 d\u011bti), ale tak\u00e9 t\u00edm, \u017ee v\u00edc a v\u00edc nar\u00e1\u017e\u00edm na to, \u017ee vid\u00edm kou\u0159it n\u011bkdy dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed a dokonce i n\u011bkter\u00e9 d\u011bti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jako odpov\u011b\u010f na ot\u00e1zku \u201ePro\u010d nekou\u0159\u00edm?\u201c bych si na prvn\u00ed \u201epohled\u201c\n\u0159ekl \u2013 no p\u0159eci proto, \u017ee je to z\u00e1vislost, \u017ee kou\u0159en\u00ed zp\u016fsobuje rakovinu, \u017ee\n\u0161kod\u00ed zdrav\u00ed, p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed c\u00e9vn\u00ed onemocn\u011bn\u00ed, \u010dast\u011bj\u0161\u00ed onemocn\u011bn\u00ed cest d\u00fdchac\u00edch,\nm\u016f\u017ee zp\u016fsobovat neplodnost, u d\u00edvek p\u0159ed\u010dasn\u00e9 porody, necht\u011bn\u00e9 potraty, vady u\nnarozen\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed, zkracuje \u017eivot v pr\u016fm\u011bru o 12 let, zp\u016fsobuje del\u0161\u00ed hojen\u00ed\nran, rychlej\u0161\u00ed st\u00e1rnut\u00ed k\u016f\u017ee, nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 zbarven\u00ed zub\u016f a dalo by se pokra\u010dovat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ale ruku na srdce \u2013 nev\u00ed toto i mnoho sou\u010dasn\u00fdch ku\u0159\u00e1k\u016f?\nMnoz\u00ed to ur\u010dit\u011b v\u011bd\u00ed, ale p\u0159esto kou\u0159\u00ed d\u00e1l. Tak\u017ee asi jenom t\u00edm to nebude. Nemysl\u00edm\nsi ani, \u017ee by to bylo t\u00edm, \u017ee bych byl n\u011bjak lep\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e ti, kte\u0159\u00ed kou\u0159\u00ed, nebo n\u011bjak\u00fd\nuv\u011bdom\u011blej\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mus\u00edm j\u00edt tedy v my\u0161len\u00ed hloub\u011bji a p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00edm nad t\u00edm,\nco \u010dlov\u011bka k tomu vlastn\u011b vede, \u017ee kou\u0159\u00ed. Napad\u00e1 mne, \u017ee n\u011bkter\u00e9 mo\u017en\u00e1 jejich\nvzor, kter\u00fdm je \u010dasto jeden z rodi\u010d\u016f, ale mnohdy i n\u011bjak\u00fd jejich star\u0161\u00ed\nkamar\u00e1d, pop\u0159. zp\u011bv\u00e1k, herec, youtuber, \u2026 Oni p\u0159eci kou\u0159\u00ed a jsou dob\u0159\u00ed, tak\npro\u010d bych nem\u011bl kou\u0159it j\u00e1?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Zn\u00e1m lidi, kte\u0159\u00ed za\u010dali kou\u0159it jako mlad\u00ed na vojn\u011b, a pak u\u017e\nse toho nezbavili. (To bylo je\u0161t\u011b v dob\u011b, kdy kou\u0159it u men\u0161\u00edch d\u011bt\u00ed bylo\ntabu a krom profl\u00e1kl\u00e9 klukoviny to bylo n\u011bco opravdu hodn\u011b v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00e9ho).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

K tomu m\u00e1m jenom takovou epizodku ze sv\u00e9ho d\u011btstv\u00ed, kdy\njsem si cht\u011bl vyzkou\u0161et kou\u0159en\u00ed, kdy\u017e mi bylo 12 let a byl jsem na tetin\u011b\nsvatb\u011b. Velmi pracn\u011b jsem si vy\u017e\u00e1dal svolen\u00ed rodi\u010de, \u017ee si m\u016f\u017eu od jin\u00e9 tety\ncig\u00e1ro vz\u00edt. Vy\u0161el jsem ven p\u0159ed hospodu jako \u201evelk\u00fd machr\u201c, koukaly na mne\nr\u016fzn\u00e9 d\u011bti. J\u00e1 ale netu\u0161il ani princip kou\u0159en\u00ed, tak\u017ee jsem si myslel, \u017ee to\nznamen\u00e1 m\u00edt cigaretu v puse. Str\u010dil jsem si tedy jednu ruku do kapsy, v druh\u00e9\ndr\u017eel \u201ec\u00edgo\u201c u pusy, nadechl jsem se \u010derstv\u00e9ho vzduchu a vydechl do cigarety s pocitem\n\u201evelk\u00e9ho kluka\u201c \u2013 no ale po p\u00e1r vte\u0159in\u00e1ch p\u0159i\u0161la mamka a experimentov\u00e1n\u00ed tak\nrychle skon\u010dilo :D!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V dne\u0161n\u00ed dob\u011b vid\u00edm v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed nebezpe\u010d\u00ed v part\u00e1ch mlad\u00fdch\n\u2013 dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edch, n\u011bkdy i d\u011bt\u00ed. \u010clov\u011bk na chv\u00edli podl\u00e9h\u00e1 pocitu, \u017ee snad kou\u0159\u00ed\nv\u0161ichni. Je t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 tak pro n\u011bkoho odolat, kdy\u017e je v part\u011b, kde si v\u0161ichni\nzap\u00e1l\u00ed. M\u00e1 pak pocit, \u017ee nebude \u201ein\u201c, \u017ee bude vy\u010dn\u00edvat, \u017ee je \u201em\u011bkkej\u201c, pota\u017emo\n\u017ee je srab, kdy\u017e to ani nevyzkou\u0161\u00ed. D\u00e1 si tak ob\u010das p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitostn\u011b jedno\/dv\u011b s kamar\u00e1dy\na postupn\u011b si na to zvykne – no a za n\u011bjak\u00fd \u010das u\u017e mu to p\u0159ijde jako b\u011b\u017en\u00e1 sou\u010d\u00e1st\n\u017eivota a zlozvyk je na sv\u011bt\u011b a velmi t\u011b\u017eko se jej v budoucnu zbav\u00ed. (Je\nprok\u00e1zan\u00e9, \u017ee u d\u011bt\u00ed a dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edch se z\u00e1vislost dostavuje rychleji).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u011bkdo mo\u017en\u00e1 hled\u00e1 v cigaret\u011b projev jak\u00e9si rebelie \u2013\nvymezen\u00ed se v\u016f\u010di autorit\u00e1m a n\u011bkdo si zase mysl\u00ed, \u017ee p\u0159inese uklidn\u011bn\u00ed nebo\nrelaxaci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Po t\u011bchto \u00favah\u00e1ch se tedy mohu vr\u00e1tit k ot\u00e1zce \u2013 pro\u010d vlastn\u011b\nnekou\u0159\u00edm j\u00e1? Asi to nebude v\u00fd\u010dtem mo\u017en\u00fdch chorob v druh\u00e9m odstavci, ale\nasi proto, \u017ee jsem m\u011bl dobr\u00e9 vzory. M\u00ed rodi\u010de nekou\u0159ili (t\u00e1ta p\u0159estal d\u0159\u00edve,\nne\u017e si mamku vzal). Nekou\u0159ili ani m\u00ed kamar\u00e1di (ani na z\u00e1kladce, ani na\ngymn\u00e1ziu). Nem\u011bl jsem ani \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 jin\u00e9 velk\u00e9 vzory, kter\u00e9 by kou\u0159ily. V pubert\u011b\njsem se stal v\u011b\u0159\u00edc\u00edm, tak mo\u017en\u00e1 i proto jsem byl obklopen v\u00edce lidmi, kte\u0159\u00ed\ntomu zvyku neholdovali. Mo\u017en\u00e1 jsem m\u011bl \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed \u2013 j\u00e1 v tom ale ur\u010dit\u011b vid\u00edm\nBo\u017e\u00ed milost, \u017ee jsem se mohl cigaret\u00e1m vyhnout. N\u00e9 v\u0161ichni to tak ale maj\u00ed L.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kdybych tak zvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b d\u011btem i dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edm napsat n\u011bco na\nz\u00e1v\u011br \u2013 moc bych v\u00e1m to p\u0159\u00e1l taky, ale \u017eijete v tomto ohledu v mnohem\nt\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed dob\u011b a cigarety jsou pro v\u00e1s daleko dostupn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a kamar\u00e1di v\u00e1m v tom\nzlozvyku tak\u00e9 jist\u011b r\u00e1di pomohou. Pro mne je skute\u010dn\u00fd \u201emachr\u201c ten, kdo dok\u00e1\u017ee\nodolat, dok\u00e1\u017ee \u0159\u00edct kamar\u00e1d\u016fm \u201ene\u201c, i kdyby byl v part\u011b jedin\u00fd. Je to\nzn\u00e1mkou, \u017ee si dok\u00e1\u017ee j\u00edt za sv\u00fdm, j\u00edt proti proudu, p\u0159ekon\u00e1vat p\u0159ek\u00e1\u017eky \u2013 i kdy\u017e\nto m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9, ale ka\u017ed\u00fd takov\u00fd m\u00e1 m\u016fj obdiv. Tak k\u00e9\u017e byste v tom byli\n\u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00ed. P\u0159\u00edp. pokud u\u017e v tom l\u00edt\u00e1te, tak k\u00e9\u017e by se v\u00e1m poda\u0159ilo tohoto zlozvyku\nco nejd\u0159\u00edve zbavit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Budu r\u00e1d, kdy\u017e do koment\u00e1\u0159\u016f nap\u00ed\u0161ete t\u0159eba i n\u011bjak\u00e9 va\u0161e\nzku\u0161enosti nebo \u00favahy.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

To je zaj\u00edmav\u00e1 ot\u00e1zka k hlub\u0161\u00edmu zamy\u0161len\u00ed. Napadla mne, kdy\u017e te\u010f \u010dasto chod\u00edm na d\u011btsk\u00e9 h\u0159i\u0161t\u011b a ob\u010das \u017eel mus\u00edm necht\u011bn\u011b \u201e\u010dmuchat\u201c cigaretov\u00fd kou\u0159, kter\u00fd se line od n\u011bkter\u00fdch rodi\u010d\u016f (a bohu\u017eel nejen j\u00e1, ale i m\u00e9 d\u011bti), ale tak\u00e9 t\u00edm, \u017ee v\u00edc a v\u00edc nar\u00e1\u017e\u00edm na to, \u017ee vid\u00edm kou\u0159it n\u011bkdy dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed a dokonce i … Pokra\u010dovat ve \u010dten\u00ed „Pro\u010d vlastn\u011b nekou\u0159\u00edm?“<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/radamichal.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/814"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/radamichal.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/radamichal.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radamichal.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radamichal.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=814"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/radamichal.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/814\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":819,"href":"https:\/\/radamichal.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/814\/revisions\/819"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/radamichal.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=814"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radamichal.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=814"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radamichal.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=814"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}